What do women really want for Valentine's day?
Written by Alison A. Armstrong
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Well… We want chocolates, mushy greeting cards,
flowers sent to the office, real jewellery 
and much anticipated marriage proposals...
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Or do we?
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I think what women crave more than anything else is 
Intimacy...Connection...Closeness... 
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And I was hoping to find it somewhere in that box
of Valentine’s chocolates. Is it between the caramels 
and the nut chews? 
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Maybe the chocolates are 
an expression of his Feelings for me. 
And if I could break open those feelings, 
like I broke open that mocha crème…
In my search for intimacy, I would gaze intently 
into my boyfriend’s eyes and ask,
 “How do you feel about me?” 
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I thought that if I could get him to talk 
about his feelings, then I would experience being 
close to him. If he would “open up emotionally,” 
then we could have those intimate moments 
for which I longed. To know him, to connect 
with him, I must connect with his emotions. 
I must hear about his feelings.
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Or so I thought.
  
