What do women really want for Valentine's day?
Written by Alison A. Armstrong
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Well… We want chocolates, mushy greeting cards,
flowers sent to the office, real jewellery
and much anticipated marriage proposals...
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Or do we?
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I think what women crave more than anything else is
Intimacy...Connection...Closeness...
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And I was hoping to find it somewhere in that box
of Valentine’s chocolates. Is it between the caramels
and the nut chews?
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Maybe the chocolates are
an expression of his Feelings for me.
And if I could break open those feelings,
like I broke open that mocha crème…
In my search for intimacy, I would gaze intently
into my boyfriend’s eyes and ask,
“How do you feel about me?”
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I thought that if I could get him to talk
about his feelings, then I would experience being
close to him. If he would “open up emotionally,”
then we could have those intimate moments
for which I longed. To know him, to connect
with him, I must connect with his emotions.
I must hear about his feelings.
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Or so I thought.