nedeľa, 31. mája 2009

LOVE IT IS ...








It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery how it happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why some love grows and it is a mystery why some love fails. You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and causes, but you will never do anymore that take the life out of the experience. Just as life itself is more than the sum of the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body, love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions and commonalities that two people share. And just as life itself is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so too, the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that cannot be questioned in its ways.

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Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life - the gift of love will come to you in full flower. Take hold of it and celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. This is the dream we all share. More often, it will come and take hold of you, celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on.

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You need to know this about love, and accept it. You need to treat what it brings you with kindness. If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.

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If you find yourself someone in love with you but you don't love him back, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage; do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how you deal with yourself. All our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different. If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it nor to assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time. Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.

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The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away. Remember this and keep it to your heart. Love has its time, its own season, its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery. BE GLAD THAT IT CAME TO LIVE FOR A MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE. If you keep you heart open, it will come again...


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28 komentárov:

  1. Wow........................be gentle?

    a very interesting article
    needs a second look and thoughts
    love is a mystery, so is life
    too many unanswered questions
    I feel like every moment of my life
    is the result of the beauty of love.
    I therfore regard my emotional attachments
    to life and love, with great sensitivity.
    I thank the Lord for having given me the talent and gift
    of being and sharing "love" with others
    through my music and otherwise.
    And nobody can TAKE AWAY, the "love" that exists inside me, till the end of time......

    Love always,

    Vartkes

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  2. Vart said :
    "I feel like every moment of my life
    is the result of the beauty of love.
    I therfore regard my emotional attachments
    to life and love, with great sensitivity.
    I thank the Lord for having given me the talent and gift
    of being and sharing "love" with others
    through my music and otherwise."

    O my dear Vartkes...you are very lucky man...BE GLAD THAT IT CAME TO LIVE FOR A MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE...The gift of love came to you in full flower...

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  3. oops......................touchee

    easily said than done

    I dont think I can agree with you

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  4. I am indeed very lucky.............indeed

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  5. You have to read the whole sentence...

    If you find yourself someone in love with you but you don't love him back, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return.

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  6. I'm very glad that you are happy and very lucky man indeed... That is very infrequentlyand not the same for everybody...as you know, I have not a talent for to play a violon...definitely...

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  7. this is what I do not understand dear Professor Viera.
    I knew you wrote, but did not know you wrote sooooooooooooooooooooo well,
    Bravo my dear,
    and trust me you are a very loving and caring human being
    May you always be blessed and protected
    hope I am not a nuissance to you ane your readers,
    aurevoir ma belle

    Love always,
    Vartkes

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  8. Welcome sygmarom...Thanks for your message...

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  9. Dear Viera
    Love is a gift ..A surprise gift..A gift I treated with care, kindness, consideration. I did not expect or realise the beauty of Love...Until one day it was taken from me. So cruel and without care, kindness and consideration. Now I know what Love is. I need to share it once more...But will that Love be the same...?? Thank you Viera
    Love Franki
    xx

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  10. 'Love'ly post, Viera. Well, so much has been written and said about Love ... even though, Love remains a mystery that makes us sometimes laugh, others smile and the worst of all... crying for disappointment? misunderstanding? unlucky fate?.... I fully agree with Frankiex comment... Love is a gift and most of the times we only realize the treasure we have had when we lose it for this or that reason.... Love is a gift, well wrapped in a nice paper, and beautifully knotted, however, how rarely the contents exceeds or equals the outside in beauty! Anyway, always handle it with care and respect... each time, it knocks, each time it shows up in a different way, though always lovely! That's LOVE.... Belita

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  11. Beautiful and true words.
    Thanks, Viera. :-)

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  12. What would life be without LOVE?!

    Wonderful post, Viera!

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  13. I can not imagine it, sweetie...the secret of love is that it is abeautiful gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away...the best way to the right person...Love has its time, its own season, its own reason for coming and going...You can only embrace it when it arrives...

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  14. Dear Graham, you are always welcome...yes... Love is the dream we all share... Have a beautiful day filled with love and happiness...

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  15. yes Belita it is many times an unexpected gift...More often, it will come and take hold of you, celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on... you don't choose love, love chooses you...Love always has been and always will be a mystery...with love Viera

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  16. why it has to be for a "brief" moment?
    and why could I not choose????

    I wonder ?????

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  17. I completely agree with you Frank and with Belita...All you can really do is accept love for all its mystery when it comes into your life and you'll find yourself in love with someone who will love you...Thank you Frank for your lovely comment...

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  18. Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life - the gift of love will come to you in full flower. How beautiful if you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you..This is the dream we all share... Sometimes it is only for a brief moment...however terrific time...Love always has been and always will be a mystery....

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  19. Viera, you can send all your love my way. then we will find that horse

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  20. What a wonderful blog to ponder. Beautiful thoughts my friend....

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  21. OK Andrew, remember only that you need to treat what it brings you with kindness...or you have to gently refuse the gift you cannot return...I'm looking forward to that horse...:-))

    Thanks for your visit...

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  22. Thank you for your comment Carla...Glad you like that blog...you are always welcome...

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  23. Id never refuse anything you bring me......sweet Viera LOL

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  24. as I see it is the best time to watch the horses...I 'll help you....where we can start...??

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  25. there are plenty of horses where I live. Man are back and shiny.

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  26. :-))... you mean that I have to swim farther...or you know the best way... I'll come...

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  27. Excellent Post about LOVE! Viera.... LOL!!
    Thanks for the post.
    Hugs.

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  28. your visit Rosa makes me always a big pleasure... Love is a never ending story...Hugs and kisses my dear...

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